i’m both a Dad and a nerd, what else do you expect from me?

emily.
Honestly it all started innocently enough. Some friends on Facebook were posting this video from Google.

Its part of Googles Chrome stories they started telling online a short while ago. If you haven’t checked out the rest of the Chrome videos I suggest you do, they are clever, fun and like “Dear Sophie” emotional.

I’m not one for being overly emotional, yet this video stung me in the right places, my love for my daughter Emily and technology. The understatement that this video was just another few minutes spent on You Tube would be just that, an understatement.

Upon completion as I attempted not to get all choked up at work. I fired up my .ca registrar and secured my kids personal .ca domain. This got me to thinking. As a parent I’m often thinking of ways to introduce technology into my kids life in a meaningful way. I’ve long been saying that Emily will learn to type not on a keyboard, but in fact; the visualization of what a keyboard is. Her concept of computer input isn’t necessarily a mouse, but the gestural nature of iPhones and iPads. But lets save that for another post. Back to grabbing digital usernames, emails and domains for kids who don’t really understand what they are.

The concepts of email addresses, .com’s and twitter handles escape kids. However, as a parent should you collect these things when they don’t matter to your kid so that when they do you can have them ready? For me I am going to say yes. Maybe for selfish reasons and obvious reasons but reasons none the less.

yourkidsname.domain
It’s true, Emily has no real daily use for having her own domain… or does she. Shortly after registering her.ca I found myself with options of what to do next. It’s true that in her future she might not have much use for her own personal domain. But what if she becomes famous? What if she becomes a photographer and wants to show off her work. In 10-15 years from now will she go to register a .ca and not be able to since somebody else did before her? I believe that the investment now can prevent what happened to me… I don’t own my own .com, I do own my own .ca (thankfully I’m Canadian) If I only had the foresight to grab the .com before somebody else. It’s a silly regret yes, but one that for 20$ a year I can nab up for Emily. Even if she never uses it, I know its there.

emilys playtime cards

For now her domain will serve as a way to get in touch with her parents and subsequently her. Emily recently finished her first year of school, and while its nice to have phone numbers for parents I barely know, she connects mostly with her peers via paper notes. So why not make a little paper note with her email on it so parents can arrange playmates. You say an email for a kid? I digress, this first year of school was full of firsts and one thing that has changed from when I was a kid was the birthday invitation, now I’m RSVPing via email to kids parents and having lists of gift suggestions emailed to me, this is perfect and seemingly so perfect for parents of other kids. Why can this extend to emailing kids about playmates? It should.

Your kid on a social network.
For now, Emily is absent from any other network online save for twitter. My reason for this is that I want to use twitter as her way of learning to compose messages to a void, get her comfortable with posting short bursts of her personality. It might break some rules along the way but that doesn’t seem to have stopped even some of the twitter founders from getting their own kids on twitter. Plus it took close to 15 minutes to get a proper handle for Emily. Who surprisingly was quite picky as to what would pass and not pass when it came to deciding on a username.

What next?
For me the big crux for getting Emily online was having an email, sure I could have set up a gmail account for her (and I still might) but I like the personality that comes with having your own domain. Granted the nerd in me will eventually route her email through Google apps ;)

I think for now she’s pretty set up and I’ll enjoy the years ahead when I know that I’ll be collecting usernames along the way, just in case. More importantly I’ll really enjoy the collection of memories she gets to create and that’s the magical part for me, most parents would agree.

I’m sorry but I’m going to say no…

if you know me at all, then you know I have a real problem that consumes my life. Day in and day out. What is it you ask? Well I have a hard time saying no to people I like. People that ask me for help usually get it. Somebody needs a blog? I usually host it. Portfolio site? I’m usually building it. Want me to teach you something, I usually will. The one problem with all of this is that my time for myself easily gets left by the wayside, personal projects get put on a backburner that seems to stretch into the distance, never moving up in the que.

I’m struggling to find a way to keep myself and people I care for happy. It’s a tough road but I think from here on out, I need to help myself first, others second. There are plenty of things I wish I would have done by now. Some simple, others requiring my attention for a longer period of time.

What happens now? Whats the plan?

Plan is to take everything that is currently on my plate and get rid of it, finish it. Kill it and bill it so to speak. While this happens I’ll make structured plans to get my personal projects in order so I can accomplish them at a steady pace.

I’ve realized that I’ve done alot for others but not much for myself in the last few years. I need to be greedy and try and make myself happy by doing the things I spend time dreaming about. Making myself happier is the ultimate goal, that happiness fed by the accomplishments I feel I need to do.

Sorry to say that I can’t help you, I need to help me…

working and learning + working and rendering + working and living

The last two weeks of my life have been crazy to say the least. 2.5 months into my stay at TAXI and I found myself up to my armpits in rendering huge files for our 15th birthday. Compiling old spots and print ads plus pop culture references from years dating back to 1992, really made me realize how far I’ve come and how further ahead we are on this planet. Now that the party is over and the files have been backed up. I’m onto bigger things, one of which is diving head deep back into the world of flash to better skill myself in the ways of fine programming, something to which I’ve left by the wayside in favor of recycling the same old cruddy code I’ve developed over the past 2 years of not deving flash like I used too. Oh how it feels to learn again.
At the same time I’ve been busy at home, while the studio’s dance season came to a close I found myself working nonstop to get everything done for everybody. Plus with Emily and Jen at home I felt like my time with them was slim, but I tried my best to make due.

Two projects in addition to this already heavy workload were the updated Franco Shade and Jug websites.
jug

Prolly the simplest site I’ve done in a while a small site for Jug Shoes and Liners. Simple and to the point. There is going to be a blog added and we are just sorting out the database things with that.

jugshoes.com

frsh

Obviously taking far longer than I wanted it too is the new FRSH site. Now fully flash on the front end I have a few menu tweeks under the hood that I wanted to take care of most of which you’ll never see, but its a personal thing. New stuff to be added shortly.

francoshade.com

pacific mall.

So yesterday Jen and I decided to take the little one, aka “the kid” to the Pacific Mall. Neither of us had been in quite sometime. It was a fun trip, I always find that visiting the mall makes me want to spend money on obscenly small and glossy electronics. This trip they had some of the newest cell phones I had never even seen even with my online newsfeeds some of these great phones slipped under my radar.

we did the bubble tea thing had some waffles and looked at all the new stores that have popped up since the last time we were there.

fun.

status

its been about a week since I blogged about anything so I though I would giv’er and post something. Weekend is over birthday with the parents on saturday night, where we went to caseys and got full on good foood, headed back to our house for apple pie and icecream, I’m not one for cake and got a pie instead.

Presents ensued from mom and dad, a 12 foot ladder which I really needed since we have some burnt out lights on the house i cant reach even at 6+ feet tall. Some DVD’s, sin city extended edition, 40 year old virgin, wedding crashers and corpse bride. Plus this black and decker handy drill thing, looks like a little gun, will be great cause i know its goign to stay charged like the box says for up to 18 months, NIIIICE.

sunday we did the dance experience showcase for competitive dances, whole day 9 till around 5:30, took about 300 pictures of the dances, and generally helped out, ate subs for lunch which were good since the last subs we had were not so great for the stomach.

later on that night got some belated birthday presents gift card to henrys which will go towards something camera like and mostlikely a lense, plus a EB games gift card which should do me for a new PSP game.

thats about it, updated and re-designed portfolio is about 80% done, jsut need to put in the content like the quicktimes etc then fix so that its live.

friday the 13th

for some this day is nothing but a pain that is constantly reoccurring. lots of people are very cautious today, but for me it hold a special place in my life for it was a friday the 13th that Jen and I went out on a first date.

so today is a sort of anniversary, one that passes seemingly randomly by, and wile people crying of the though of this day its meaning I cant help but think that it holds such a drastic different view in my heart.

happy anniversary – special friday the 13th edition!

**edited for spelling